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Friday, April 18, 2008

Life on a Friday

I hope that one day I will look forward to a Romantic weekend. I wonder what there like?

AMY WINEHOUSE CD


The following is not gossip or preaching. The following article is just praise for a talent worth listening too.

Hi I am not a fan of today's popular music. ( Is it still called Top 40 or Pop?) Anyway I herd all about Amy Winehouse's troubles long before I herd any of the songs from the CD. For some reason when I herd parts "Rehab" for the first time I was intrigued. So I bought the CD. When I herd it for the first time I loved it.



To describe Amy's style its like big band meets Motown. All the songs are great. My favorite song happens to "Back to Black".

If your into great music I want you to buy this CD. You might not like Amy's headline making life but you will love her as singer. The woman has talent. She deserved those Grammy's!

Joe Simpson (Jessica & Ashlee Dad) does he seem gay?





Does he seem gay to you? He might not be but he is no John Wayne that's for sure

Thursday, April 17, 2008

THE TRUTH ABOUT GAY MEN & Gay Life


Gay men. If your straight and your reading this, good. I am a gay American. According to lots of Christians I am going to Hell along with all the Jewish people. (Wake up Christians Jesus was Jewish).

I would say most Gay men in this Country live 2 lives. I am one of those guys. At work I am who I am. I don't go around and say I am gay, I can't anyway this is Mississippi. I get along with my co-workers but I do not talk about my private life. I am all business at work which means I am always serious. I don't joke around and cut up with people at work. I don't because I do not trust most of them. The are uneducated church going morons. This is one life. In my second life I am who I really am at home. I am a gay man who is very friendly with my neighbor and real friends and family. With these people I am my real self. I am funny. I am honest! I help out anybody that I can. I am a friend. I let my hair down and put on my earring and put on my "chick flicks" when I want to watch a movie. I talk about my private life and give my true opinions. When your a straight man you can do that without fear with anyone. They should try to be gay for a week most straight men would fall apart! They would crack! The cowards!




What is funny to me is that the men I work with 2 of them are divorced (both have been married 2 times) 1 is married but cheating on his wife. Another got 2 girls pregnant when he was in high school. He is now married to a different lady but has no contact with his 2 out of wedlock children, which tells me he must not pay child support. Those kids suffer I am sure.



Now all of them talk very negative about the gay people that we work with. Whats funny is that none of these straight guys have a clue that I am gay. These divorced & cheats think gay people would not take marriage seriously.



What they do not understand is how gay men and straight women can be friends. Well the truth is lots of gay men can relate to women on an emotional level. Lots of gay men see the world like women. We do not think like a woman but we see the world as women do.



Now when your a gay man you can not hold your bf hand in public. You can not kiss him goodbye at the Airport. You can't kiss them hello at the airport. You can not most things straight people take for granted. Your always double thinking your every word and every move.

Gay Closet Case Co-Worker in Gulfport MS




I worked at a store for a few months last Summer. Since this is Mississippi I did not talk about my sexual orientation. Then One day I was being nice and listening to a co-worker talk about his life. He told me "he had no friends at work" etc etc.





Well he then made a pass at me. I was nice about it but turned him down. He then would hit on me all the time and then , in front of me would tell our other co-workers he had a girlfriend. This man is a nutcase. I did feel sad for him because I know he is gay and the way he has raised and the way he thinks he is only heading to a breakdown.



I felt sorry for him. Then I figured out he was A Bible Thumper, who lived at home (he is 24) had no goals to move out of the home. He got very angry at me when he told me "he was in love with me" and I said oh "That's Nice". I did not want to tell him "There was no way I could ever be in love with him". I was being nice but also stated that I was in a relationship.





I left that job at the end of Summer. However before I left this man started to scare me. Even today months after I have left This man keeps calling me. I never return his calls. I feel bad for him but, I can't help to think that I would be in danger if I became friends with him!



Hey "P" if your reading this get help fast.



Gay Men & Lesbian Women Will our voice be herd?


We will get a new President in less then a year. Chances are for gay men & women nothing will change for the better. Gay rights are not a topic that any of the candidates will address. Gay marriage will still be illegal. Gay adoption will be against the law in Florida. The church and Dr James Dobson will continue to raise money so they can throw stones at homosexual sand get away with it!



If I had my way I would change the laws that

* Make gay civil unions be recognized in all 50 states.
* Make Gay hate crimes a top priority
*Overturn "No Child left Behind"
*Make MJ legal
* PASS A LAW THAT WOULD TAX BOOZE AND BULLETS. The tax would go to keep trauma centers open. After all most people that are in the hospital Emergency Rooms are there because of booze and bullets!

Wednesday, April 16, 2008

LAPD gunned down Ray Vitte


Forgotten victim of LAPD violence Ray Vitte. Mr Vitte was an actor. His biggest role was in the 1978 movie "Thank God It's Friday". He was well liked by his fellow cast mates and was very good friends with Donna Summer. The reason why the LAPD gunned down Ray Vitte in 1983 is crazy and the explanation is just as crazy. The truth is the LAPD gun downed Ray Vitte in his own home. They said he was "drugged out of his mind and preaching & screaming the words of god at his neighbors". I am sure Ray did not know that could get you killed!



Now What neighbor called and why is not what matters here. What does matter is that it was obvious that Mr Vitte was "GUNNED DOWN and MURDERED" by the LAPD. Mr Vitte never did point a gun at the neighbors or the LAPD. In fact he didn't have a gun on his person at the time he was murdered.
Whatever happened to the policeman that did this? I bet he was promoted. If he was white I am sure he was promoted that day.



That was 1983. African Americans said that the LAPD killed an innocent man. Nobody at the DA'S office did anything. I do not even know if there was a real internal affairs investigation about this. Some how I don't think so. What was sad is that nobody really did listen to the black community about the complaints they had about the LAPD. It took another 8 years (and video tape evidence) that proved the LAPD did use excessive against African Americans.



That proof of course was the video tape beating of Rodney King.


LAWS THAT OUTLAW GAY ADOPTIONS ARE unconstitutional


GAY ADOPTION



This country is full of ignorat people. These people are dangerous. They would rather see Ryan O'Neal adopt and abuse children then let 2 gay parents adopt. Yes Florida Outlaws gay adoptions and so does Texas. Christians run this country and there also ruining the country!




TMZ


TMZ has obtained the mugshot of actor Ryan O'Neal, who was arrested Saturday morning at his Malibu home. He was booked on charges of assault with a deadly weapon and negligent discharge of a firearm after a fight with his son, Griffin. O'Neal was released after posting $50,000 bail. Police tell TMZ that O'Neal, 65, fired at least one gunshot during the scuffle. Cops say he was booked at the Lost Hills Sheriff's station without incident. He was released at 5:30 AM.Sheriff's sources tell TMZ that a 22-year-old female friend of Griffin's was "inadvertently" injured at the scene and transported to a local hospital. Sources wouldn't confirm if the injury was a result of the gunshot.Griffin O'Neal, son of Ryan and Joanna Moore, is also no stranger to the law. The 42-year-old spent 18 days in jail for not performing the community service ordered by a judge who found him guilty of reckless boating in a 1986 accident that killed the son of film director Francis Ford Coppola.




Griffin also has a history of substance abuse. He pleaded no contest to a drunken driving charge in 1989. In 1992, he agreed to spend one year in a live-in drug rehabilitation program after pleading no contest to charges he shot at his estranged girlfriend's unoccupied car. Ryan's daughter Tatum has been in & out of rehab! So has his son Redmond. Ryan is a bad parent! However there should be a law that would outlaw him to have children but there isn't. Ryan has proven to be a bad parent for 4 decades. Now does he have a child that hasn't been to rehab or jail?






So the church (Dr James Dobson) doesn't want gay men and women to be able to adopt! I am sure Dr James Dobson would jump up and down with joy if Ryan got married and had more children! I for one would love to have a law that would make it a crime for Ryan to have anymore children! I also want any laws that outlaw gay adoptions to be thrown out on the grounds that the laws are unconstitutional.



However I think having a dad like Ryan might not be unconstitutional but I am positive that its hell.

This Gay man doesn't know who to vote for



Hilary Clinton or Bama. WHO is on my side in the long run. As far as I can tell gay rights are not an issue for neither one these candidates. So should I give shit about them?
Well yes. I love Bama. I think he would be an excellent President. I think Hilary would be great as well but does she care about my future? For some reason I don't think so.



All this gay man wants is equal rights. Not special rights. Straight people can get married and fail at it so why not gay people?


I really don't have any passion

Tuesday, April 15, 2008

For My Broken Heart in Biloxi


My Secret crush is no longer a crush. I had a birthday party (at work) and he wasn't busy. I invited him down to join the party he said "I would" but he never showed. Oh well life goes on. Besides he is like 54 and I am only 41. I can do better and I will.

DIRK SHAFER CIRCUIT A REVIEW


A gay theme movie that is well worth watching? Is it true? Well in a word, "Yes". Now "Circuit" is a good movie, not great but good.



The DVD that I saw is the directors cut which runs longer then the unrated edition. I have never watched the R RATED version so I can not review that.



Now what I loved about this movie is that it knows who its audience is. The audience for this movie is going to be primarily gay men.



The movie was written and directed by the openly gay Dirk Shafer. He is very familiar of the gay circuit parties and he fills the screen with great man candy. He knows what his audience wants in a movie and he goes for it.



The storyline is interesting. A gay cop in a small town movies to West Hollywood after his co-workers find out he is gay. He soon get caught up in the Circuit Parties and his life seems to go spiraling out of control.



This movie made want to see "Man of the Year" again. That was the directors first movie which is very funny.


If you could turn someone gay who would it be?


Okay the straight people have us gay people outnumbered. Gay people Were bound to have a gay crush on straight guy. We might not let the straight guy know but we do have them. If I could turn someone gay I would make "RA" from where I work. He nice. But I can't make him gay so I will move on.


Now if I could make a famous straight person gay I would make that stupid man who lives in DC in a big old white house. I want him to know and see how it feels to be treated as a political punching bag.



Now for the famous guy I would like to turn gay it would have to be Jake Gyllenhaal . Since he did "Broke back Mountain" I became a fan of his. He is very handsome, very very handsome. Too handsome for him to be straight.

If America is not ready for Katie Couric then there not ready for Anderson Cooper


I feel bad for Katie Couric. She has took a risk for doing the CBS News. She was the first woman ever to get the sole anchor job at any Network. Barbara Walters & Connie Chung were both co-anchors.



If America is not ready for a woman to do the News then I don't think they will be ready for Anderson Cooper. America hates anything that changes.



I think there both Katie & Anderson are great. They both have strengths and weaknesses. Nobody of course is perfect. However America is not tolerant of change. In fact Americans hate change. We have a history of fighting change



*MOST AMERICANS HATED TO GIVE RIGHTS TO AFRICAN AMERICANS
*AMERICANS DID NOT WANT TO GIVE WOMEN THE RIGHT TO VOTE
*AMERICANS DID NOT LIKE GIVING WOMEN THE CHOICE

*MOST AMERICANS DO NOT WANT TO LET HAVE GAY COUPLES EQUAL RIGHT TO GAY CITIZENS

*MOST AMERICAN WERE UPSET WHEN ELLEN CAME OUT OF THE CLOSET

* MOST AMERICANS HATED INTEGRATION

*MOST AMERICANS STILL HAVE A PROBLEM WITH INTER-RACIAL COUPLES

*MOST AMERICANS STILL FEAR BLACK MEN

*MOST AMERICANS BLAME IRAQ FROM THE WORLD TRADE CENTER BOMBINGS

*MOST AMERICANS STILL THINK 2ND HAND SMOKE KILLS

*MOST AMERICANS THINK AA IS A RELIGION

*MOST AMERICANS THINK BEING JEWISH IS A NATIONALITY

*MOST AMERICANS THINK THE BIBLE IS THE WHOLE TRUTH AND BELIEVE IN CREATION AND NOT EVOLUTION
* MOST MEN HATED WORKING WOMEN
* MOST MEN IN THE SOUTH WILL NOT VOTE FOR A WOMAN OR A BLACK MAN
So what makes CBS Think that America will except the openly handsome Anderson Cooper?


* MOST AMERICANS WILL NOT WANT TO SEE A RUMORED GAY MAN BE A MAJOR NEWS ANCHOR

Soul Mates are Soul Mates Real?

I hate the word/phrase Soul Mate. I worked with one woman who all the time saying she was looking for her "soul mate".



I think that wording is stupid. I think soul mates are friends you have for years. It would be nice to be "best friends" with your gay lover but straight people I think have this problem too. Look at the divorce rate that straight people have. Look at gay relationships they seem not to last either.



I think it is time to stop saying soul mate or we should change the meaning!

Monday, April 14, 2008

In gay or straight relationships How do you fall out of love?

My grandparents were married for over 60 years. My parents have been married for almost 50 years! How do they do it? We all think 1 gay year in a relationship is equal to 3 straight years but come on give me a break on that. I just want to know how is it or how do people fall out of love? How does it happen? Maybe you were not in love to begin with? Tell me your opinion PLEASE!!