What "straight actor" sets off your gaydar?

Yes we all know of "stars" who say there "straight" and they might even be married however your gaydar says otherwise. Someone who sets off my gaydar is Brad Rowe. He was the love interest to Sean Hayes in "Billy's Hollywood Screen Kiss". Your turn now who sets off your gaydar?

What if AIDS never happened?

I came of age in the 1980's. I graduated from high school right when the AIDS epidemic in America. I was ready to explore being gay but AIDS scared me into denial and I ended up in a closet until I was almost 30. Now I can not blame AIDS all together for me being in the closet however I always have wonder that if AIDS never happened would I have stayed in a closet for that long?

Gay men When do you make a move?

If you see someone you like in public (not in gay bar) when do you make a move to get his phone number?

When love someone but not in love anymore

Relationships are hard. I have only been in one long term gay relationship. Its almost anniversary time and I am not really looking forward to an anniversary. The friendship is there but the love isn't equal anymore. I am still trying figure out on how that happened.

Gay men what are you looking for in a boyfriend?

To me at my age I would want someone who is nice, kind hearted, with a nice smile. I want him to have a job and be comfortable with his homosexuality. I would not want to be his first boyfriend cause lets face it first timers freak.

Gay Theme Movies What is missing?

Why is that most gay theme movies are bad? I wonder when does the gay audience get a good romantic comedy. The only good gay movie I have seen was "Billy's Hollywood Screen Kiss".
But where is the gay versions of "My Big Fat Greek Wedding", "Sleepless in Seatle", and "The Way We Were"?

Zak Spears Where is he Now

Okay I have to admit this man is very good looking. In fact he is great looking. I herd he was did a mainstream movie but was it released?

What happens to older Gay Men?

Its a sad fact that gay men in there 40's have to come to think there too old! Why is that gay men in there 20's think of gay men in there 40's are too old for them to date?

Well to each there own. However if your gay man in your 40's there is hardly any older men in there late 50's early 60's to help Gage us through the unknown. Why is this? Well AIDS.

AIDS wiped out a huge part of gay baby boomer men. These are the men that were part of the huge gay rights movement. The straight counter parts of the boomers have redefined what being in your 40's, 50's, & 60's. . However for gay men we don't have that. I am in my 40's and I feel like I am breaking new ground but I know I am not.

Now as a gay man in my 40's I do not see any older gay men couples? I know there out there but where?

I have to create a life that I am proud of. I have to be my own role model. I have to set an example to the world of what a gay man in his 40's is all about. I live in Mississippi so if there is any gay male couples here I love to meet them.

GAY SEX HOW AFRAID WERE YOU THE FIRST TIME?

GAY SEX HOW AFRAID WERE YOU THE FIRST TIME?

Okay here is the deal. (This is for men only).I don't care if your 18 or 80 how afraid were you the first time you had sex with another man.

This is a question we never see on talk shows. This is something that is never mentioned anywhere. If you know your the "bottom" you must be afraid. Where you? Did you enjoy the sex the first time?

I for one can say it scared me. Did I enjoy it? Well it was okay. It wasn't great. Buth then again what's great sex for me might be boring to someone else.

Ellen Degeneres & Ann Heche Celebrity Gay Couple

Ellen Degeneres & Ann Heche Celebrity Gay Couple

In 1997 Ellen Degeneres and Ann Heche became the worlds most famous openly gay couple. The title was previously held my Julie Cypher & Mellisa Etheridge.

At the time "ellen" was coming out I myself was coming out. "Ellen Degenres" was out to her friends and family but to the world she wasn't. Her character on TV "ellen morgan" was not out. That character at 35 was finding her way in the world. Now I wasn't a fan of ther tv show "ellen" however when I herd the Summer of 1996 that "ellen" was coming out I was excited.

I myself was 1/2 step out of the closet. I started to follow "Ellen Morgan" leads and copied her hints she was dropping on the show.

Well "Ellen Dengeres" came put publicly in 1997. When she came out she had a girlfriend by her side as well. That lady was Anne Heche.

Now lots of nasty things have bees said about Anne. I just want to go on the record and say "Ann was a brave soul". She was on Oprah Winfrey with Ellen and said "Be Proud of the relationship your in", "This is Love, we should celebrate love".

From that moment on "Ellen and Ann" became the hottest couple in the USA. It was the first celebrity gay couple. In the year 2000 Anne & Ellen broke up. That was sad. Even today there break up" has left a void. There is not celebrity gay couple. We need one. I thought "Ellen and Anne" were great role models.

When I met them in 1999 I thought Anne was very kind. I am still a fan of hers and to me she was a role model that other stars should copy. She was polite to fans. Took pictures with them and signed autographs. She should teach a class to stars on how to deal with the public.

My birthday is Over

I still hope I get my wish.

What it was like to be a gay teen in the 1980's

Life for a gay teen in the 1980's.

Wow this is a statement. In a nutshell HELL. In 1979 I was 12. For some reason I knew that I was different. I knew I had a "Crush" on this man that worked at a store. When I had a "fantasy" about him I freaked out BIG time. I actually forgot about that memory for years. However I did know then I was a FAG but at the same denied it.

Growing up is hard enough. When your gay its hell on earth. I had nobody talk too in an honest way. I am sure this was like most places . However I did not know any openly gay people at all. There were rumors of cousins but I never saw them.

In 1981 I went to a church camp for a week. It was my LAST TIME. Wow this was an eye opener. This camp love to have sermons that sounded like a KKK rally. What I remember the most was that at this camp was that Jewish people were going to hell and that gays were going too.

Well I thought they were crazy. The only thing missing was a sheet and a burning cross. I was glad when the week ended. After that shit I never wanted to be around CHURCH people again.

Well less then 2 years later AIDS became a hot topic. AS far as the general public was consenered "Gay people were asking for AIDS". This was all that I herd from teacher preachers and even parents. Well going through puberty and hearing this makes one hate gay people even if your gay yourself. By the time I was 16 I knew I was gay and I tried so hard not to be gay.By the time I was 20 I developed a drinking problem that lasted for 10 years.

I thought in the 2000's things were getting better. However when a gay teen is killed just because he is gay this reminds me that life is still hard for gay teens.

PSYCHO BITCH FROM OKLAHOMA SALLY KERN

PSYCHO BITCH FROM OKLAHOMA SALLY KERN

I hope she rots in hell. Well I know she will. I hope she gets there soon.

The following story is from http://www.perezhilton.com/

What are people smoking in Oklahoma City?
It must be something good,because they are really messed up in the head. Or maybe it's all that inbreeding.
We're sorry if we're offending Oklahomans, but we're fucking pissed!
More than 1,000 people were at the Oklahoma Capitol on Tuesday for a rally to support Gay-basher state Rep. Sally Kern.
Satan Kern, as you may recall, is the crazy republican who was recorded making anti-gay remarks, decided not to apologize for it, and even has a gay son!
According to Satan Kerns, homosexuals are a greater threat than terrorists!
People were on site with "We Stand With Sally Kern," signs.
That's crazy! One thousand people supporting her is still 999 too many!

If gay Marriage was legal

Would you get married to your partner if gay marriage was legal? Personally I don't know. Today I would said "No". Next week I might have a different answer.

Gay Adult Men how do you make a move

Okay I have a crush on someone. He might be gay and he might not. How should I approach him?